Billy Joe Onks

Published 9:48 pm Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Billy Joe Onks was called to his heavenly home on Dec. 17, 2017 at the age of 86. Billy was a long-time resident of Phoebus and resided in Suffolk for the past 19 years.

In May 1953, he enlisted in the Army and served in the Korean War. Upon returning home and raising a family, he worked at Virginia Power and Horne Brothers and worked the majority of his life as a commercial fisherman. He served as captain of many vessels, including his own work boat, the Clara K.

Billy was a member of the Army & Navy Masonic Lodge No. 306 AF & AM, Warwick Moose Lodge No. 1711 and the American Legion Phoebus Post No. 45.

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Billy was a very loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and friend. He never met a stranger — known to many as Pappy, Papsy, Dad, Grandad, Pop, Daddy Rabbit, Captain, Jack, Shorty and Old Man.

Billy’s personality permitted him to connect to all age groups and mentor many young individuals, especially his grandson, Gabriel Rosa, whom he called “Boy.” He was an incredibly kind man with a generous heart and spirit. He loved music, especially bluegrass, country and gospel, attending many of the bluegrass festivals in the area every year and jam sessions throughout the year.

Billy was preceded in death by his wife, Mildred Onks; mother, Creola Mayes; father, Charles Onks; son, Frank Windsor; sister, Barbara Morris; and brother, C.R. Onks.

Billy will be dearly missed and will forever remain in the hearts of those that knew him. He leaves to cherish his many memories three sons, Elmer “Junior” Windsor Jr. (Wendy), George “Joey” Onks Sr. (Karen), Darrell “Lenny” Onks (Joyce); two daughters, Barbara Rosa (Pete) and Bonnie Goodrich (Lou); 11 grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren; sister, Jimmie Arvanites; and extended family members, Esther Hingle, Nancy Masters and Debby Miller.

The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 21, at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 245 S. Armistead Ave., Hampton. A funeral will be conducted at 11 a.m. Friday, Dec. 22, at the funeral home chapel by Pastor Joe Hunt. Interment will follow at Parklawn Memorial Park. Expressions of condolences can be made online at

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to be made to one of Billy’s favorite charities, the Alzheimer’s Association.