James Lilton “Buddy” Gay, 81, died Jan. 1, 2018. A graveside service will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 6, 2018, at Colosse Baptist Church Cemetery, 6361 Rhodes Drive, Windsor, VA 23487 with Pastor Mandy Newman officiating. Friends may join the family for visitation from 6 to 8 p.m. Friday evening at Parr Funeral Home & Crematory, 3515 Robs Drive, Suffolk. Condolences may be registered online at www.parrfuneralhome.com.